A lot on my mind - Volunteering

So as some of you may know, I’ve been hoping to “branch out” of my specifically career paths by attempting to volunteer at non-profit organizations. My hope is that, by volunteering I can learn different skills and ‘sample’ different lines of work through my observation and experiences.



I got the idea from someone I met who told me that she only discovered she didn’t want to become an Engineer *after* she got her Engineering degree. She eventually became a volunteer coordinator at a non-profit and gave me her card when I said I’d be interested in helping out.

Unfortunately, I am off to a bit of a rough start as the non-profit this person works for happens to be Christian-based as is reflected in a few loaded questions they make you answer in the volunteer application:

Q: Tell us about your faith.
A: I don’t have one.

Q: How often do you attend Church/mass?
A: Once in the past nine years?

Q: In your opinion, what specifically characterizes a person walking with God?
A: I...don't know?

It also asked me to list the name of my Pastor / Reverend as a personal reference.

I thought about just filling it out anyway and hoping for the best – they can’t deny me from volunteering based on religious differences, can they? – or even asking if my not being Christian (or religious) would be a problem, but then I realized that if I’m taken aback by just the online application, I can only imagine what other things I could take issue with as I go further down the line. So I decided not to do it.

Shame, too. I had high hopes for that one.

Still on my list is the "A Noise Within" Theatre, Visual Communications, and Idealist.org

A lot on my mind - Writing

So another thing that’s been troubling me / on my mind lately is this short film that I’m trying to make with Rosa.

She's (understandably) been taking a long time to read my first draft because she’s been busy trying to get into Colleges / Grad schools. But she finally got back to me saying she read it, liked it, and advised what the next step should be if we really wanted to do this.

That next step – finding money to produce this.

I suppose this is what prevents a lot of films from being made (both good & awful) but I’m hoping that we can find a way to overcome this. We’ve been brainstorming over emails this past week and have come up with several ideas; here’s what we’ve come up with (listed in order of likeliness):

- Yard sale
- Car wash
- Host a “fundraiser” party: (like a regular party – but people pay us money)
- Find someone “rich” willing to ‘invest’ in this movie.

I told her I’d be willing to “chip in a few bills” for this as my only goal for this film is to see it made, but I’m sure other people (Rosa included) would like to see some money out of all their time and effort. But as of right now, “Yard sale” seems to be our most likely choice.

Movie-making doesn’t seem so glamorous now, does it?


**UPDATE**
- I took the notes I got from everyone I sent my first draft to and am almost finished writing my second one. (Spent all Sunday writing - now I gotta re-edit it and see if it still flows / makes sense)

- Also spoke to Nico and apparently there's a website that helps with grants for artists? Not getting my hopes up, but if that's true and we can get some funding through it, that'd be awesome!

It's NOT "just a Blog"

I was going to post an entry about some of the other things that have been bugging me lately, but I just read this interesting article in the L.A. Weekly “Theatre section” which I wanted to write about.

The article, entitled “I Blog Dead People,” (more about blogging than theatre - something I found odd) recapped a fact-checking faux pas when a L.A. Theatre critic posted an entry mourning the passing of another L.A. Theatre critic who wasn’t actually dead. The critic eventually posted another entry, apologizing for the error but tried to downplay it by saying that he was just writing something in a blog and that his mistake wasn’t as grave as people were making it out to be.


L.A. Weekly critic Steven Leigh Morris (writer of the article) seemed to have a bone to pick with this line of thinking as he noted these were the same people who wanted an ‘on-the-record’ interview with a theatre publicist so they could use it in a story they were putting on the same blog.

I found the point Morris makes here incredibly interesting because I’ve seen examples of this contradiction happen before: a prominent writer (who usually comes off as a little smug) will argue that blogging is a legitimate (and better) source of news because it can provide a faster and more in-depth look at things where journalism can’t, and then later argue that “it’s just a blog” when they’re called out on an error that they made in an entry.

Nice try, media bloggers, but you can’t have it both ways – if you’re going to argue that blogging is a legitimate source for news, then maybe you should treat it like one and subject it to the same fact-checking (and spell-checking, seriously) that the other media does. Or at least take responsibility for the error and correct it. Otherwise you’re just hurting your reputation – and that of bloggers everywhere.

Granted, a lot of bloggers don’t do this. A lot of them either check to make sure they’re accurate or say upfront that their claims are pure B.S., but this is important for anyone who blogs to keep in mind because blogging IS becoming a reputable source of news these days. Every company with a website probably has a blog function by now – and we should be able to trust what they say whenever it mentions something newsworthy.

Otherwise blogs would just be filled with baby pictures, online surveys and angst-ridden teen poetry.



Can you imagine? This guy has.

A lot on my mind - Housing

Like the title says, I’ve had a lot on my mind lately and I guess this is as good a place to unload my thoughts.

One of the more pressing things I have in the back of my mind is moving – something I really hate doing because of how time-consuming and tedious it is. But Evan is moving out, so I gotta scramble – sooner rather than later – and I’m currently without a plan. They say that finding a place is the hardest part of moving and I think that’s because there are so many questions that come at you all at once, causing you to panic.

These are the thoughts that are causing me to panic:

Where to live? Should I live alone or with a roommate? Can I live alone on my budget? Who am I going to room with if I can’t? How will this affect my (also slow & tedious) volunteering / job hunt? How will I know if I’m paying too much on rent?

Ideally, I would love to move back to Pasadena because it was a great city to me.

• It has the Laemmle / Regency / Paseo
• The Lindygroove / PBDA / Third Saturday Swing are so close-by.
• Gotta love the convenience of Peet’s Coffee & Tea on Lake Avenue
• A lot of my friends live close-by.

But the reason I moved to Glendale in the first place was because living in Pasadena got a little too pricey for me. But a friend of mine recently moved to a rather nice-looking Pasadena apartment in the Playhouse District for not too much of a month’s rent, so I’m hoping I can do the same. It *is* a buyer’s market after all these days….!

SUGGESTIONS ON WHERE TO LIVE FROM PEOPLE I’VE TOLD
Eagle Rock
Pasadena (by me)
Burbank
Korea town

And take a look at the typo in this email I got from a girl I told at Lindygroove:

Hey Stuart,

Are you still looking for a place to rent? The bedroom in my apt will be free at the end of June for $550.00 not including utilities.

O WILL IT NOW???

Anti-April Fools

April Fool’s Day is one of the few ‘holidays’ that I don’t enjoy because I think it’s inherently mean-spirited.

I know that the pranks pulled on this day are supposed to be “all in good fun” but I don’t think a lot of people really understand what that means. To me, it means “everyone finds it funny,” not “everyone *but you* finds it funny.”

And call me ‘uptight,’ but I just don’t find those kinds of things funny. I guess it’s kind of a sore spot with me.

A GOOD APRIL FOOL’S JOKE: a guy announces he’s pregnant. (ridiculous)

A BAD APRIL FOOL’S JOKE: a girl announces she’s pregnant. (plausible)

So yeah, that’s my “beef” with April Fools Day. But give me Pi Day, (3/14) Talk like a Pirate Day (9/19), or any of those other ‘holidays’ that people celebrate *just because* and I’m your man.

In any case, I thought I’d do post some Anti-April Fooling news and just update you all on some new happenings in my life:

• My brother called me the other day and mentioned he’s coming to L.A. to visit for a week. He’s coming the last week of April (26th – 30th?). Gonna try and see if I can take a day off that week so we can do the “family bonding” thing.
  
• Been trying to find some companies / non-profit orgs that are looking for volunteers. This will be my way of slowly ‘trying to find a new job’ if things don’t change at my current one soon.
  
• Evan is moving out come June 2010 so I’m beginning to look for a new place to live / a new roommate to take his place. My ideal area would be “Eagle Rock” / “Highland Park” (in the middle of everywhere I want to be) but I’m just worried about being able to afford a place on my own if I can’t find a roommate.
  
• I have no idea if that short film script I wrote will ever be produced. My director friend is turning out to be flaky as hell & might even be moving since she got accepted into several film schools outside L.A.

Okay, that’s enough for now.

TRY NOT TO BE AN @$$ ON APRIL FOOL’S DAY, OKAY???
Kthx.

The "Whatever Blog"

If any of you are interested in the history of blogging or the study of blogging social media, you should probably know the name “John Scalzi.”


He’s a freelance writer & sci-fi novelist who’s been blogging since the term was practically invented. I believe he holds the record for longest consistent blogger? (twelve years!)

I just bought his (latest?) book – “Your Hate Mail will be Graded” which is basically just excerpts from his blog – aptly named “Whatever” because it’s usually about *whatever* he wants to write about – and it’s been a pretty great read so far. The chapters are pretty short (as most blogposts are) and flow pretty nicely.


Anyway, enough plugging for one day. (I’ve been doing that a lot lately, haven’t I?)

Pet Peeve # 26

*BEGIN RANT*

Have you ever walked down a hallway in School / at work and saw someone you knew walking towards you?

You have?

Good - now follow-up question: do they ever ask how you are…..and then MOVE ON, not waiting to hear the answer?

Me too! And I find it *really* odd / annoying.

I mean, if you’re going to ask “how are you” to someone, shouldn’t you also do them the courtesy of waiting for them to tell you their answer? It’s a simple question, sure, but the answer isn’t always “Fine, thanks.”

Sometimes it’s “my wife is dead.”

And if that’s the answer, not waiting to hear it just seems insensitive.

And since there’s no way of knowing if that’s what they’re going to say before they tell you, you really need to be prepared for it, on the off chance that their wife really did die – just in case.

Or here’s a simpler solution: why don’t people, instead of not waiting for a response, just NOT ask the question? It’s really more efficient. You can just say ‘hi!” instead, which simply acknowledges the other person’s presence without wasting your breath or their time as they try to answer you. It’s still polite, but clearly establishes that you don’t want to know how they’re doing – because you’re too busy! Otherwise you’d stop and ask them.

Really, people – learn some manners.

*END RANT*

Man, I’ve been saving that topic since I moved to Los Angeles. Didn’t realize it would come out so….angry. Not gonna edit it, though. I feel the anger really helps get my point across.